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The trials, struggles and joys of a "FULL TIME" lady in pink, mom, on her way to the top, with a few pitstops, pitfalls and questions along the way.

Friday, July 26, 2002

Friday Five:

1.How long have you had a weblog? Since June 2002. Newbie on the BLOCK!

2. What was your first post about? Excited about starting an online journal. Ohhh pink. (the site layout)

3. How many changes (name, location, etc.) of your weblog have there been, if more than one? Started with "All That Fizzes" and it turned into a quiz rating log. Came to this one, for MK, but slowly turning into my life journal, now have "Shutter" for Thursday Themes, which I hope to go with 1000 words.

4. What CMS (content management system) do you use? Do you like it or do you want to try something else? Blogger, but hope to learn greymatter. Would like to learn something else so I can host it on my own site and get rid of the ads.

5. Do you read people who have both a journal and a weblog? Or do you prefer to read people who have all of their writing in one central place? Whatever catches my attention.

Thursday, July 25, 2002

"Thursday Threesome"a day early

Onesome: all - all the world's a stage... So what types of issues put you on your soapbox? You mean I have a soapbox? I thought after all these years, my job was to hold the soapbox! I guess for me my issues would be the squeaky clean thing - Do Unto Others, as You Would Like Done to You, or something along that line. In other words, don't screw with me to get ahead on the ladder of success, don't worm your way out of work and dump it all on me and take credit for the job well done. Fairness! Equal! Cuz, by golly, what comes around goes around double! Whoa! This box is high!

Twosome: things - what sort of things are you most likely to purchase "spur of the moment" when shopping? Shoes (on sale!). a magazine (Rosie, O, People). a good book.

Threesome: girl - sugar and spice and everything nice? Come now, what are YOU really made of? Judging by my weight, dorittos, sugar, chips and dip. I may not be Suzy Homemaker or the girl next door, but I think in all assets, I'm made of humble feelings, pure (most of the time) thoughts and a loving heart.

Dang.. trying to come off rough and tuff and I end up looking like a geek!

wi-peeeee. I got to talk to my sister on AIM today. She is in Italy and is heading back to the states for a few weeks, and without knowing it, we planned a weekend get-a-way with our husbands to Las Vegas!

Wednesday, July 24, 2002

Wouldn't you know it.. this was in my email box after I posted the below message.

YOUR DAILY MOTIVATION

THERE ARE NO SHORT CUTS TO SUCCESS.

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Whatever you want in life, you must give up something to get it.
The greater the value, the greater the sacrifice required of you.
Everything has a price.

There's a price to pay if you want to make things better,
and a price to pay for just leaving things as they are.

Nothing worthwhile ever comes easily.
Work, continuous work and hard work,
is the only way to accomplish results that last.
Use your imagination more than your memory to achieve success.

The highway to success is a toll road.
There is no success at bargain basement prices.
I just wonder when it will end. What will end you ask? The sinking fear that our life will turn upside again and that we will be scrambling for the mercy of family and really truley hit bottom.

Explain -
My husband and I have always had money troubles. From our wedding night 11 years ago to today. It has only been in the past 9 months, things went really sour and now I live in a constant fear that we will lose things. We have filed for bankruptcy and working that out with payments to keep both our broken down vehicles that are not worth the paying off amount. We have had to move to another part of Denver in a lower income to make ends meet, which rarely meet, let alone line up sometimes. He works 2 jobs, I work 2 jobs and we have given up so much in the past 9 months, I don't even want to go into detail about it. Yet - every few days I go into this fear of, "what will we do if..." and get scared about the future. I'm talking dumb stuff, so I know I'm setting myself up.. but does get scary.

Tonight we got a call from the electric company. Pay by tomorrow or be cut off come Monday. Instant fear of, do we write a hot check to cover it, or take the hit and lose power 3 days till payday with the kids? Neither answer a good one. I worry, while I'm out running over to the bank and dropping off web money. Fear sets in and a knot in my stomach just starts turning and turning. Husband calls and asks why the electric company called and I explain and he says, we paid it last week. Fear over. Simple. If I had waited to talk to him, the stomach would not be in such a knot.

I wonder how much longer this fear of lossing our "stuff" will last and that I can go back to living in the future for fun things to do.
wa-hooo... watch for www.stephanieanderson.net in the works. Site will be up and working by this weekend.

All confirmed for this weekend. Mom is totally elated that we are heading home. An all weekend Mary Kay power hour, with a few trips to my old stomping grounds... Earl's restuarant is one of them and maybe a quicky visit to the University.
Seems to be a quiet week, but right now I'm just concentrating on my other job and trying to figure out Perl and UNIX. I think if I got Perl down, UNIX would not be a problem, but since both require coding and stuff.. I'm not sure where the problem is so I curse at them both.

I wasn't one to go visit my mom when the idea was put to me last week. Not that I don't want to see my mom, I do. I just don't like going home, would rather meet her somewhere else but there. But now that I am going home for 3 days, the excitement is getting to me a bit. Packing tonight and flying out tomorrow with the little ones. And I know on her end she's just as excited, so it will be fun.
Postive Thursday -

- - Doing a cool website for my Director Stephanie. It will be so cool.
- - Going home to visit my mom. I see her every Summer at our "half-way spot", so this will be my first time home in a year.
- - Generally happy, for me that is a good thing.

Monday, July 22, 2002

participation positives

>> Getting to sleep in on both days over the weekend
>> it rained last night - I love the smell of rain
>> the ICE CREAM MAN! (see below post) LOL
>> the great week I had last week
>> I get to see Stephanie tomorrow and work on her website
>> things are getting better in my life
My husband wrote this into our yahoo group list we hang out with. I still giggle over the outcome. I got an ice cream sandwhich. :)

I've got another one for the "I'm an idiot file." You'd think after screwing up EasyMac I'd put more thought into even some of my spur of the moment decisions. I suppose I shouldn't share this, and let other parents learn this on their own, but I believe some lessons shouldn't be learned the hard way.

Both kids (7 and 8 years old now) come running into the house looking for money because the ice cream man is on his way. I head for the nearest available cash and hand it to them, and out the door they run. I waited a couple of minutes then headed outside and waited for the kids to finish their transactions, and to get the change. It turns out that if you hand a ten dollar bill to 7 and 8 year olds, there will be no change, but there is 10 dollars worth of overpriced junk food. God the ice cream man must love uninitiated parents.

Sunday, July 21, 2002

From the Houston Chronicle website:

July 20, 2002, 9:24PM

Mary Kay sales reps think pink at annual convention
Associated Press

DALLAS -- With perfectly styled hair and manicures, thousands of diamond-clad Mary Kay sales representatives gathered in Dallas for their annual convention, the first since the death of their inspirational leader and founder.

About 50,000 women from around the world were expected for "Seminar," which started Thursday and ends Aug. 3.

Mary Kay Ash, whose pink Cadillacs and business savvy made her famous, died in November at age 83. But as the day began Saturday, an enthusiastic crowd filled an auditorium at the Dallas Convention Center to watch a message from Ash taped in 1994.

"You have made my dream for women come true," said Ash, who wore a bright red suit with matching lipstick and nail polish. The speech was filled with advice like "Remember that anything in this world you can have if you want it bad enough."

Ash, who had a stroke in 1996 that rendered her unable to speak and write, had not attended a convention since 1995 except for an appearance in 1997.

"This company was always concerned about the eventuality of her passing," said Tom Whatley, president of global sales and marketing. He said the decline of her health gave the group time to get used to the idea carrying on without their founder.

"One of the tenets of our corporate strategy is to amplify her soul through everything we do," said Whatley, who like many others wore an oval-shaped picture of Ash on his lapel.

Mary Kay Inc., which has a sales force of 600,000 in the United States and 350,000 internationally, had more than $2.8 billion in retail sales last year.

The convention is held partly to acknowledge the achievements of the sales force with gifts such as diamonds and trips.

Whatley said Ash had a clever response to anyone who might poke fun at the company often known for its award of a pink Cadillac. Whatley said she would ask, "Tell me what color Cadillac does your company give you?" My favorite line.. Tell me what color Cadillac does your company give you?"

After earning a college degree and working for a year, 33-year-old Keita Powell Nelson, of Bowie, Md., decided to follow her mother's footsteps selling the cosmetics and skin care products. It's now her full-time job.

"I mean, to get diamond rings like this for your hard work," said the heavily bejeweled Nelson.

Mary Kay isn't afraid of change, either. For example, the well-known light pink cosmetics containers are being phased out to make way for platinum and gold containers, said Diana Gold, manager of global corporate communications.

The meeting Saturday featured a drawing for one of Ash's purses, song-and-dance numbers and talks from top sellers.

Sisters Monique Todd and Lise Clark were among those making their debuts this year as independent national sales directors, the top spots on the Mary Kay career ladder.

Clark, 44, was in her 20s when she embraced a career with Mary Kay. The former beauty pageant contestant who lives in Englewood, Colo., had been trying to make ends meet in Los Angeles with three jobs.

She eventually helped persuade her skeptical sister to join Mary Kay, and they both earned six-figure incomes last year.

"We became women in Mary Kay," said Todd, 41, of Colorado Springs, Colo.

Clark said Ash had been preparing the company for the time when she would no longer be with them.

"We hold in our heart her dreams and visions," Clark said.

Todd's husband was among the men accompanying their wives to the convention, even joining other husbands in a parade across the stage.

Jeff Todd, 43, said part of the fun of the convention is to watch the women get so excited about what they're doing.

"They don't get a lot of sleep, but somehow they have enough energy to get through," he said